Fellow newbie here; started last year. Now have 2 archery seasons and 2 rifle seasons under my belt, all on public in OTC or zero-point units (for residents).
TLDR: almost everything is worth trying once. Give it a go, see what you think, and go from there.
It's definitely not for everyone. E.g., a close friend started at the same time as me, and his first elk season made him realize he has way more fun shooting ducks and riding his bike during the fall. But he's glad he tried it so he could figure out his own priorities.
On the other hand, I got fully hooked / obsessed. I don't regret any of the miserable hikes, late nights, or early mornings across the 50+ days I've been able to walk around looking for them.
I think my main advice would be to (1) set reasonable expectations / goals for what exactly you want to 'get out of' your elk hunts, (2) use your next hunt as a way to reevaluate those priorities, and (3) be realistic about whatever effort you need to put in to get the experience you want.
E.g., I've realized that I have a more enjoyable on-hunt experience when I see fewer people and get to enjoy being in wild places by myself or with a small group of close friends. But I want to hunt every year and don't have the budget or mindset for private / guided hunts. So, to get the experience I want, I know I'll generally have to put in a lot of miles on foot, and focus on units without tons of roads / easy access. In my limited experience, if I can get at least 2 or 3+ miles from a trailhead / road, the number of hunters drops off exponentially from there.
But that's just me. There are others who get away from people by setting up the rest of their lives so they can afford to hunt private, hire an outfitter, save up for high-point units, etc. And, based on the number of shots I've heard in areas with easy access, plenty of folks still find a way to harvest pressured elk. And I figure the presence of other hunters doesn't detract from those folks' overall enjoyment of the experience as much as happens to do so for me.
Even when I can't get away from other people, the vast majority of my interactions with other hunters have been great. Only exception I can think of is the goober who set up less than 100 yds from us on opening day of 2nd rifle this year, but most folks are at least respectful, and a lot of them are just as psyched as I am to simply be out there.