ohhiitznik
WKR
I think you should try a set of regular stays. It might push the pack into your lumbar more so you won't get as much slippage
The Center of the buckle should be over your belly button. The center of your pack belt should be much higher than your natural pants waist. The center of the webbing of the belt should cup the top point of your hip bone. The pack is hung on the top of your hip bone .
Real men have hair EVERYWHERE! As a matter of fact, if you don't smell like a wet dog when you shower I hate to break it to but you're a woman. LolAnd for god's sake Franklin, do some manscaping! that belly is hairier than a saskwashiz arse hole... LOL