Sounds like you all need to shut off your phone for a couple weeks and learn to deal with its use in an appropriate way. I'm sorry but it appears that too much time is spent on the phone by this group and a lot of others. I have the luxury (if you want to call it that) of having a computer handy most of the time and don't depend on my smart phone for data. I would rather not have a cell phone, but it is a necessary evil. What did you do before cell phones? I'm guessing that there is a segment here who still remembers the "pre-cellphone" days or the "pre-smartphone" days? The last question is whether our expectations are reasonable???? Sorry.