Building a Hunting Lifestyle

Sounds to me like your priorities are in the right order. When you put God first, naturally your marriage and family will fall into place as you all strive to serve God together! Everything after that (hobbies, hunting, and career) HE will take care of. Stay strong and GOD will bless in every aspect of your life, time included. I speak from experience!

Thanks man, you’re so right. I have a tendency to try and plan everything in my life, but sometimes I’ve gotta just leave it to God. I appreciate the encouragement!


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A trip to AK is great and worthwhile, but its the easiest part because you are in a profession that pays and a trip like that only takes a couple weeks. Heading west to hunt is also easy (assuming you can get a tag) most folks can afford a week or two a year. But thats like 2/52’s of your life, its nice but its hardly a lifestyle. Lean into everything your back yard has to offer, because if that isnt enough, it wont be enough.
 
A trip to AK is great and worthwhile, but its the easiest part because you are in a profession that pays and a trip like that only takes a couple weeks. Heading west to hunt is also easy (assuming you can get a tag) most folks can afford a week or two a year. But thats like 2/52’s of your life, its nice but its hardly a lifestyle. Lean into everything your back yard has to offer, because if that isnt enough, it wont be enough.

Good point. I love hunting at home, I think I just overestimate the time expense of a western hunt each year. Thanks for the encouragement!


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I am in my mid-20s, married, and in law school. Hunting is my only real hobby (besides archery), and my passion in life. I am striving to be a transactional lawyer of some sort, likely in the tax and business realm, but I am struggling with what I should do next. My faith and my family come first, but I really want to build a life where I can hunt when I want. I am a hard worker and being a master of my craft is important to me, and I am willing to spend years temporarily placing my dreams on hold (as I have already) to build the life I want for my family and I. With that said, I am unsure whether it would be best for me to work my way up to partner in a firm, start my own firm, or go a different route entirely, whatever that may entail. I am starting to realize that my responsibilities as a husband, father, and church servant will take up more of my anticipated hunting time than I imagined. I could say a lot more, but this is something I would like to hear about from others who have gone through similar situations and are currently living a life where they have the freedom they desire. It doesn't have to be an attorney giving me advice, although any attorneys willing to offer advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
Pm me if you want - happy to run through some thoughts and options. I’m an attorney, have pretty good balance on these things - it’s not impossible - the most difficult thing is to draw the boundaries (with other lawyers, clients, etc.) to execute on the dream. But once you draw the lines consistently over the years and demonstrate competence within the boundaries it can work out pretty well. Some choices early on can help.
 
Pm me if you want - happy to run through some thoughts and options. I’m an attorney, have pretty good balance on these things - it’s not impossible - the most difficult thing is to draw the boundaries (with other lawyers, clients, etc.) to execute on the dream. But once you draw the lines consistently over the years and demonstrate competence within the boundaries it can work out pretty well. Some choices early on can help.

Thanks, man!


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I went through this when I went back to school. Chase money and future goals. Or live like a hobo for years?.
I was jealous of my buddies who worked just enough to get by and always were on trips and hunting. While I was grinding away. 10 years later, I take trips when I want while they work lower tier jobs just to make ends meet for their family.

I've realized really you got two choices do it when your young with no responsibility and see what happens. Or build your future when your young and make it happen.

Just had our first kid in March and my world changed for the better but im still making time for my week long trip
 
I went through this when I went back to school. Chase money and future goals. Or live like a hobo for years?.
I was jealous of my buddies who worked just enough to get by and always were on trips and hunting. While I was grinding away. 10 years later, I take trips when I want while they work lower tier jobs just to make ends meet for their family.

I've realized really you got two choices do it when your young with no responsibility and see what happens. Or build your future when your young and make it happen.

Just had our first kid in March and my world changed for the better but im still making time for my week long trip

That’s great to hear, and congrats on the kid! That’s probably one of my biggest issues right now is just seeing my friends have all the time in the world on their hands while my nose is on the grindstone. But I tell myself it’ll pay off, so I hope it does!


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I’m pretty fortunate in life, I’m in the screw it phase for work, and give back phase for kids. I can walk away from work and find something to do to pay the bills, and all I want to do is make sure my kids, and anyone else has the opportunity to get outdoors. Maybe look at teaching hunters safety or do a mentor type hunt. It’s almost as fun as dropping the hammer!
 
I’m pretty fortunate in life, I’m in the screw it phase for work, and give back phase for kids. I can walk away from work and find something to do to pay the bills, and all I want to do is make sure my kids, and anyone else has the opportunity to get outdoors. Maybe look at teaching hunters safety or do a mentor type hunt. It’s almost as fun as dropping the hammer!

I’ve never thought of that, but I really like that idea. That would be a great way to give back and to get to experience the outdoors simultaneously. Thanks!


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I moved my wife and 6 month old son across the country to pursue medicine in 2014. We spent 4 years in Virginia for med school, followed by 5 years in Cleveland, OH for residency and fellowship. It was definitely a grind. Hunting and shooting are my main hobbies and they took a back seat for many years. We added our daughter to the mix during medical school and I didn't really have much free time between studying and helping with the kids.

Life on the other side of training has been great - I landed a great paying job out west (grew up in Idaho, so have plenty of family nearby) and have a lot more freedom in terms of both time and finances. The hard work pays off eventually!
 
I moved my wife and 6 month old son across the country to pursue medicine in 2014. We spent 4 years in Virginia for med school, followed by 5 years in Cleveland, OH for residency and fellowship. It was definitely a grind. Hunting and shooting are my main hobbies and they took a back seat for many years. We added our daughter to the mix during medical school and I didn't really have much free time between studying and helping with the kids.

Life on the other side of training has been great - I landed a great paying job out west (grew up in Idaho, so have plenty of family nearby) and have a lot more freedom in terms of both time and finances. The hard work pays off eventually!

That’s super encouraging. Thank you!


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Position your life in a manner that allows you time and financial freedom to hunt. People who work in gym clothes are more likely to get a workout in that day - that type of thinking that "defaults" you in pro hunting positions.

Spitballing:
Live close to areas you want to hunt.
Self employment.
Expenses down
How can you setup home life that makes it easy on the wife/family to watch the kids?
What avenue of law lets you work remote?
 
Position your life in a manner that allows you time and financial freedom to hunt. People who work in gym clothes are more likely to get a workout in that day - that type of thinking that "defaults" you in pro hunting positions.

Spitballing:
Live close to areas you want to hunt.
Self employment.
Expenses down
How can you setup home life that makes it easy on the wife/family to watch the kids?
What avenue of law lets you work remote?

Thank you! I like the gym clothes analogy. Good stuff to think about for sure


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Not an attorney but know a few, and have made hunting my way of life (closing in on the Archery NA29 and Dangerous 7 in Africa)

You have to be a partner/owner otherwise you will never control your schedule and lose over half your money.

Sure short term do what you need to to make partner or work to learn/experience but definitely consider starting your own firm sooner than later. Sacrifice time/money now to set your self up for more income later. You will live much longer than you think.

Litigation and trials (personal injury law) definitely pays more than anything else. Forget Govt work, it will never pay enough and usually ends up being a thankless job. My BIL went to law school and works for the USPTO- 15 yrs later and he still can’t afford to buy a truck he has always wanted 😂 Also took a demotion to keep some control of his schedule . My other attorney friend quit the Govt job he had and started his own firm- now makes 5-6X his Gov salary with more discretion on time and vacations!

Also hunt prices have increased way more than inflation. If you are happy hunting your family farm or public land, then time off may be more important than money… but if you ever aspire to do more or international that’s a different story.

Tell me what you think it would cost to complete the archery NA 29 today? Factor that into your idealistic family budget over the next 20 years and see what your income has to be then double it for inflation 😬
 
I was in a similar position a few years ago, but medicine. Similar to law with a 10ish year grind before the “payoff”.

I figured out how to still take time for some big hunt or hunts every year. I think it is very important to balance the grind with doing what you love. Some of those hunts my wife came along and they were not as hard core, but the memories and experiences were incredible and such a blessing during a pretty tough season.

I’d wait to have kids if possible. Once they are in the mix (I’ve got toddler now), it gets harder to spend a lot of time in the woods. I was able to get some awesome hunts in before the kiddo and killed a 190” buck (major bucket list item for me)..which my wife thankfully understood and helped accommodate.

Choose your final career path wisely. I can’t speak to the law side of things, but I was able to get myself into an awesome partnership that values quality of life over money. We live below our means and do not stress about money, and I get to have as much time away as I want. I do drive a 20 year old truck and we live in a small house but the day to day lifestyle is perfect for now.

Last thing I’d say is grind it out in your 20s. Use that piss and vinegar to really crush it in the schooling and workplace. It gets harder every decade but the work you put in now can pay dividends.
 
Sure they’ll change, but that doesn’t mean I won’t still want to hunt haha. And I know that I will dedicate a lot of time to being a present father, like I said, but that doesn’t mean I totally give up on what I enjoy too.


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It’s a ride man, different emphasis on stuff in different seasons of life. I have loved hunting and the outdoors since I was about 4 years old. Sick for it like many of us are here. Joined the army, didn’t get as much hunting time as I wanted, got out, became a fireman, was hunting about 100+ days a year between big game, waterfowl, upland, predator, turkey. Then got married (again) no biggie, wife likes that I hunt and doesn’t care that I’m gone, then had 1, kid, then 2, now on #3 I went from 100 ish days to about 6-9 during archery and maybe 3-4 rifle if I’m lucky… bird hunting is shelved, so is most of my predator, but I’ll hunt a bit around my cabin in winter, short sets but better than nothing. My oldest is 3 and she is getting interested and will probably come with me muzzleloading a bit this fall, but it is a huge change. Especially if your wife works at all, but I love it and I know in about 4-5 years I’ll get a lot of my hunting time back and getting my daughters into has been awesome 3 yr old can bugle better than most grown men with just her little voice haha build a solid life and prioritize your family and they hunting will come, try to prioritize hunting and I don’t think that’s a great recipe for much
 
I was in a similar position a few years ago, but medicine. Similar to law with a 10ish year grind before the “payoff”.

I figured out how to still take time for some big hunt or hunts every year. I think it is very important to balance the grind with doing what you love. Some of those hunts my wife came along and they were not as hard core, but the memories and experiences were incredible and such a blessing during a pretty tough season.

I’d wait to have kids if possible. Once they are in the mix (I’ve got toddler now), it gets harder to spend a lot of time in the woods. I was able to get some awesome hunts in before the kiddo and killed a 190” buck (major bucket list item for me)..which my wife thankfully understood and helped accommodate.

Choose your final career path wisely. I can’t speak to the law side of things, but I was able to get myself into an awesome partnership that values quality of life over money. We live below our means and do not stress about money, and I get to have as much time away as I want. I do drive a 20 year old truck and we live in a small house but the day to day lifestyle is perfect for now.

Last thing I’d say is grind it out in your 20s. Use that piss and vinegar to really crush it in the schooling and workplace. It gets harder every decade but the work you put in now can pay dividends.

Thanks for the insight! That’s encouraging, I love hearing that there is a light at the end of the tunnel


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It’s a ride man, different emphasis on stuff in different seasons of life. I have loved hunting and the outdoors since I was about 4 years old. Sick for it like many of us are here. Joined the army, didn’t get as much hunting time as I wanted, got out, became a fireman, was hunting about 100+ days a year between big game, waterfowl, upland, predator, turkey. Then got married (again) no biggie, wife likes that I hunt and doesn’t care that I’m gone, then had 1, kid, then 2, now on #3 I went from 100 ish days to about 6-9 during archery and maybe 3-4 rifle if I’m lucky… bird hunting is shelved, so is most of my predator, but I’ll hunt a bit around my cabin in winter, short sets but better than nothing. My oldest is 3 and she is getting interested and will probably come with me muzzleloading a bit this fall, but it is a huge change. Especially if your wife works at all, but I love it and I know in about 4-5 years I’ll get a lot of my hunting time back and getting my daughters into has been awesome 3 yr old can bugle better than most grown men with just her little voice haha build a solid life and prioritize your family and they hunting will come, try to prioritize hunting and I don’t think that’s a great recipe for much

Thats a great outlook and some really good advice. I really appreciate it!


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