I've had a boat trailer aluminum I beam that totally separated. The flange tore off the web over a length of about 5 feet. It was a nightmare to straighten all that out and weld it all back together and we're lucky the thing didn't completely explode when it happened. The trailer wasn't overloaded (per the sticker GVWR) or abused or anything. You could watch the main beams flexing in the mirror going down the highway though and when you do that to aluminum, it is going to fail. Not if but when. It is definitely not going to take that. Steel doesn't care. Treat it as horribly as you want. As long as you stave off the rust it'll last forever.
Aluminum doesn't have nearly the fatigue strength that steel does. You have to be super diligent about not overloading it, ensure it was designed and built by a very reputable company who specializes in building aluminum structural frames, not abuse it, etc. Things like airplane structure are designed and built and inspected to the Nth degree because they must be. Aluminum trailers are far too often built by steel trailer guys who just slap some beer can material together and mark it up as a premium option over the steel trailers.
If corrosion is a serious problem for you, either have it hot dip galvanized (bomb proof, very heavy) or strip it to the steel and have it professionally blasted and painted. Paint jobs on most mass produced non-premium trailers is generally absolute shit and having it redone professionally isn't super expensive and will last forever. We dunk our trailers in salt water all the time and the only structural failure of a galvanized part I can remember was a 25 year old axle tube.