I appreciate all you wrote in general, but for the OP's stated use, these options may not be the way:Spark notes version, you want a Maven RS1.2, Trijicon, Nightforce, SWFA 3-9/3-15/fixed 6x/fixed 10x. Those optics range from $350-$3500, pick whichever fits your budget. Then mount it in good rings (nightforce ultralight, ARC m-brace, Burris tactical, etc), torque everything TIGHT with loctite/nail polish/paint pen, and go shoot and live happily ever after.
Shots up to 1000 yards, wants max mag in the 20s, and weight doesn't matter ... the Minox ZP5 with THLR reticle would likely be first pick for a hunting option.
@KandK22 - have you checked out the eval of this scope here?