Wondering if there is anyone on here that has retired early (FIRE Movement)

My kids will be both be out of college when I’m 57. I’d like to pay for grad school also if they choose to go. Then I’m pulling the plug at 59.

I’ve been planning for this since I started working. Barring no extraordinary circumstances it’ll be easily doable. Maybe I can even quit early to mid 50’s.
 
My kids will be both be out of college when I’m 57. I’d like to pay for grad school also if they choose to go. Then I’m pulling the plug at 59.

I’ve been planning for this since I started working. Barring no extraordinary circumstances it will be very doable.
The first time I read this my mind went to “pulling the plug” as in what one does when you take someone off life support. Then read the part about planning it since you started working and I was like “I mean 59 is an odd age to call it quits but to each there own.” Then I actually used my brain and thought it through.
 
I get it... my job was extremely demanding, stressful, incredibly long hours... but man I loved it. And much of my identity was wrapped up in it. It took an ambulance ride, a near heart attack (at much too early an age), and a couple day stay in the hospital to realize what it was actually doing to me. Was a rather brutal wake-up call.

Now... the same job put me in a position where I can be financially independent now and much more flexible with my time (not sure I fully embrace the retire early part). So... was it worth it.... I'd say probably so, but if I had actually died.... definitely not. That's a pretty fine line in the sand....

I enjoy spending way more time with my wife and kids. If I could go back and do it again, I still would have worked my ass off early on, but maybe had the presence of mind to jump off the extremely stressful train a little earlier. Hindsight is 20/20 though.
 
I get it... my job was extremely demanding, stressful, incredibly long hours... but man I loved it. And much of my identity was wrapped up in it. It took an ambulance ride, a near heart attack (at much too early an age), and a couple day stay in the hospital to realize what it was actually doing to me. Was a rather brutal wake-up call.

Now... the same job put me in a position where I can be financially independent now and much more flexible with my time (not sure I fully embrace the retire early part). So... was it worth it.... I'd say probably so, but if I had actually died.... definitely not. That's a pretty fine line in the sand....

I enjoy spending way more time with my wife and kids. If I could go back and do it again, I still would have worked my ass off early on, but maybe had the presence of mind to jump off the extremely stressful train a little earlier. Hindsight is 20/20 though.
Near death experiences certainly have a way of focussing our time and efforts into the things that are most important to us.
Glad youre still kicking and enjoying life mate.
 
Retired in Dec. 2007 at 59 but burned up all my accrued sick time and vacation so actually stopped working in May. Retired because I discovered working was costing me about 225/month over not, no brainer for me to bail. Never had time to be bored, been busier as a retiree than I ever was at work. Too much to do and places to see to be a recliner spud. Nothing to do but enjoy life, grandkids and no time clock to punch. Aside from getting old, life is good.
 
I’m 42 had open heart surgery at 36 to replace an insanely damaged aorta valve and replace the ascending aorta aneurysm that was 0.3cm from bursting that they found, and ended the day with an unplanned pacemaker. I think about retirement daily. I have a morning conversation with ai, daily inputting my current finances and feel my wife and I are on track to retire at 56. I’m so curious to know what dollar amounts people feel they need to retire at a certain age, but know that’s personal info that most don’t share. I currently max out my 401k and finally just got a Roth 401k option to contribute to, which it all got switched there. My wife is a teacher so she will get a pension. I’m shooting for 15k a month to be able to go on amazing hunts and family trips each year. That should be around the 5% mark and hoping the market grows 7-9% during my retirement to leave my kids a fat sum to blow on fun stuff, as long as they turn out to be good responsible individuals. Our current home will be paid off in 6.5 years. I just want to live long enough to enjoy it and know with my history I’m walking a knife edge to get there.
 
The first time I read this my mind went to “pulling the plug” as in what one does when you take someone off life support. Then read the part about planning it since you started working and I was like “I mean 59 is an odd age to call it quits but to each there own.” Then I actually used my brain and thought it through.
In canada they'll pull your plug when you get old lol
 
You got it buddy; people who love their jobs do so because they're control freaks that neglect their families and have no hobbys or interests. Just go ahead and roll with that.
Yes some folks truly enjoy their jobs.

You gotta do you, and you seem to put your emphasis on working. You love it and that’s great. It provides what you need to click.

I was raised/taught to prioritize family more than work yet must work to provide for them. Its a catch-22.

The truly successful guys I know work every day. They have $, charm, and a love for what they do I guess. One guy is worth north of $50 million. You’d never know it. They say they love their jobs and that’s pretty much all they have cause it is what they do all the time. So it must be true.
 
Back
Top