Vasectomy

[waspocrew]

Just had mine done yesterday. Lidocaine made for a little pressure, but that’s all. 15 min and done.

 

[Shortschaf]

So, if I were to have sex with my post-menopausal wife, God hates that?

Not at all, menopause is natural biology. Viewed the same as any couple that may not be able to conceive for fertility reasons

Does that perspective not just reduce a womans worth to be nothing more than a baby maker?
Seems pretty much like treating her as breeding livestock.......

Having sex for pleasure with a long term partner/wife is not, nor should it ever be seen as a problem. To think otherwise is just absurd.

I understand the misconception. But no, sex is irreplaceable bonding with your husband or wife, and there is nothing "wrong" at all with enjoying it. It is literally designed to be enjoying. And no, I am not suggesting that any sex without conception is bad or that all sex must be TRYING to conceive

The point is that sex should not be treated like a tool for our pleasure. Such as artificially removing the procreative aspects to enjoy it "unhindered" with responsibility

 

[dirtshooter]

One of the mothers of a girl in my son's class told my wife that the Dr let her snip her husband lol!!! Not sure I'd want my wife doing that. She already won't give me sympathy after having 3 kids for us.

 

[temple]

I am 42 and just had mine reversed! They definitely knocked me out for it this time. Getting it the doctor asked if I wanted to see what he was doing! NO THANK YOU! Recovery was twice as long but that's probably cause I'm almost 10 years older

 

[Pharmseller]

I am 42 and just had mine reversed! They definitely knocked me out for it this time. Getting it the doctor asked if I wanted to see what he was doing! NO THANK YOU! Recovery was twice as long but that's probably cause I'm almost 10 years older

New wife, huh?

 

[HairyScandinavian]

Not at all, menopause is natural biology. Viewed the same as any couple that may not be able to conceive for fertility reasons


I understand the misconception. But no, sex is irreplaceable bonding with your husband or wife, and there is nothing "wrong" at all with enjoying it. It is literally designed to be enjoying. And no, I am not suggesting that any sex without conception is bad or that all sex must be TRYING to conceive

The point is that sex should not be treated like a tool for our pleasure. Such as artificially removing the procreative aspects to enjoy it "unhindered" with responsibility

So you are saying that birth control pills, tubal ligation, condoms, etc are also bad? I think you're misinterpreting scripture. There's no responsibility/accountability involved between husband and wife, they're allowed to have sex for pleasure.

 

[Pharmseller]

So you are saying that birth control pills, tubal ligation, condoms, etc are also bad? I think you're misinterpreting scripture. There's no responsibility/accountability involved between husband and wife, they're allowed to have sex for pleasure.

Grew up Catholic but I got over it. I think Catholics can’t practice contraception.