Stories of hunting partners that quit

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For those who have them, I’d like to hear them. I’ve had two hunting partners quit on me in the past two years. The first one was on a Wyoming cow elk hunt. No animals, he got discouraged and drove the three day drive back to Michigan, he was there for four days total. I killed one the next day about 300 yards from the truck. That one’s not that big of a deal but this next one, goodness.

So I’ve been planning a moose hunt for about three years and have had the air taxi booked for two. The original plan was for my dad, brother and I to go but since my brother is going through a custody battle, he had to stay back. Same reason he wasn’t in Wyoming with me the year prior. So I invited another buddy in his place who was super excited about it. Dropped 5k on a custom rifle for this specific hunt and bought a bunch of new hunting gear so he seemed pretty serious. Or so I thought.

We flew out of phoenix August 25th and got to our destination the 26th. We tried to fly out that evening but were weathered in a flew out the next morning. The first two places I chose to hunt were already take. So we had to bump to the third choice, which was still pretty good but I’m assuming this is where things started to fall apart for him.

On the way in I didn’t see any moose, animals, nothing but on his flight in he saw five big bulls. I think this bit of info is imported for later. So it obviously took two flights for all of us to get to camp and my dad and I set everything up by the time my buddy gets there. We get settled in and all agree it feels like we stepped into a painting. Absolutely beautiful place and I can’t wait to return. Then we start exploring the next day, find places to glass from and all the places we want to focus on. Season opens up the September 5th so we have plenty of time and start shooting and cooking up ptarmigan.

On about day four he starts mentioning that he’s having a hard time sleeping, seems a bit worried about all the grizzlies and the lack of moose. We haven’t seen any moose in our hunt area yet. Then he says something about how he’d rather be at his cabin in Montana. I sympathize with him and try to encourage him and keep glassing and hiking around. I eventually, on day five, glass up a cow high up in the alders so we’re finally on the board for moose. If the cows are here, the bulls will be. And I remind him of that to get his spirits up. Apparently that didn’t work lol.

The next day he mentions Montana again and how he only got one hour of sleep that night, and how if no animals are here on day five they won’t be on day ten. I tell him I’ll go glass and he can stay back and catch up on sleep. I get back up on the glassing knob and after a few hours I hear a plane coming down the valley. I think nothing of it and then get eyes on and see that it’s our pilots plane and that he’s on approach to land at our lake. I break down everything and start running back to camp wondering what’s going on. By the time I get there he has everything of his loaded up in the plane and is getting ready to leave! Has not told me a thing about him actually leaving, contacting the pilot, nothing! I’m in complete shock that this is happening. If I wouldn’t have come off the hill, I wouldn’t have even known he left until I got back to camp that night.

Anyways, I get down there and ask him to leave his food and the raft. He already left the raft (took the paddles though) and handed me the extra food. Says sorry man and then flys off. Im in disbelief. I’ve known this dude for almost two decades and he pulls this. Leaves me alone with my dad, who’s 65, in the wilds of Alaska to hunt moose with zero explanation. Still haven’t got one from him and I honestly don’t care to ask.

So after that nonsense I saw an absolute monster of a moose the next day. Which is kinda like what happened in Wyoming in terms of finding animals. Patients pays off. Fast forward to the 5th and I shoot one opening morning. This is when I needed him. I packed that moose out, for the most part, by myself. My dad helped as much as he could but he’s 65 and moose quarters aren’t light and we had to move that bull 1.25 miles to the river then up the river another 3.5 to camp. Took me four days total, if my buddy wouldn’t have quit on me it would have taken two. But great news! I didn’t lose any meat, had a good time with my dad, and love the grind of moose hunting.

So, who else has a story like this? Everyone I told this to at the lodge was shocked and had never heard anything like this happening. Yeah, people quit but they normally give you a heads up! So let’s hear it guys, what’s your craziest hunting partner quitting on you story?


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bwhahaha! man that is great.

Over my years of guiding/outfitting I saw this dozens of times. Decade long friendships go up in flames. Wild.

One time I packed out a guy who had killed a bull... when I got to the qtrs and head (they were about a mile from camp) he was there with all his gear and bedroll. I thought.... hmm odd. then he explained he wanted to head down the mountain with the bull. Something about his back hurting and wanting to take care of meat. No prob.

His buddies called the next day frantic on a sat phone to tell me that their buddy was lost in the wilderness and probably dead.
Turns out he was already half way home and never told them 🤣
 
None of my buddies have ever quit. Had a couple take off for home early after tagging out before me. None have quit. But, I know I can be an asshole sometimes, so i dont have that many hunting partners anyway. Thats worked out pretty good for me to this point. The ones i do have are absolutely solid, and I would never let them down either.
 
The fact that you were successful makes this story so much better. I'm sure you two probably aren't planning any more hunting trips together. Did he have much experience before this trip hunting anything? I feel like seasoned hunters are the eternal optimist. Always checking the next ridge or waiting until there is absolutely no light left to do anything before calling it. We all know that things can change quickly.
 
For those who have them, I’d like to hear them. I’ve had two hunting partners quit on me in the past two years. The first one was on a Wyoming cow elk hunt. No animals, he got discouraged and drove the three day drive back to Michigan, he was there for four days total. I killed one the next day about 300 yards from the truck. That one’s not that big of a deal but this next one, goodness.

So I’ve been planning a moose hunt for about three years and have had the air taxi booked for two. The original plan was for my dad, brother and I to go but since my brother is going through a custody battle, he had to stay back. Same reason he wasn’t in Wyoming with me the year prior. So I invited another buddy in his place who was super excited about it. Dropped 5k on a custom rifle for this specific hunt and bought a bunch of new hunting gear so he seemed pretty serious. Or so I thought.

We flew out of phoenix August 25th and got to our destination the 26th. We tried to fly out that evening but were weathered in a flew out the next morning. The first two places I chose to hunt were already take. So we had to bump to the third choice, which was still pretty good but I’m assuming this is where things started to fall apart for him.

On the way in I didn’t see any moose, animals, nothing but on his flight in he saw five big bulls. I think this bit of info is imported for later. So it obviously took two flights for all of us to get to camp and my dad and I set everything up by the time my buddy gets there. We get settled in and all agree it feels like we stepped into a painting. Absolutely beautiful place and I can’t wait to return. Then we start exploring the next day, find places to glass from and all the places we want to focus on. Season opens up the September 5th so we have plenty of time and start shooting and cooking up ptarmigan.

On about day four he starts mentioning that he’s having a hard time sleeping, seems a bit worried about all the grizzlies and the lack of moose. We haven’t seen any moose in our hunt area yet. Then he says something about how he’d rather be at his cabin in Montana. I sympathize with him and try to encourage him and keep glassing and hiking around. I eventually, on day five, glass up a cow high up in the alders so we’re finally on the board for moose. If the cows are here, the bulls will be. And I remind him of that to get his spirits up. Apparently that didn’t work lol.

The next day he mentions Montana again and how he only got one hour of sleep that night, and how if no animals are here on day five they won’t be on day ten. I tell him I’ll go glass and he can stay back and catch up on sleep. I get back up on the glassing knob and after a few hours I hear a plane coming down the valley. I think nothing of it and then get eyes on and see that it’s our pilots plane and that he’s on approach to land at our lake. I break down everything and start running back to camp wondering what’s going on. By the time I get there he has everything of his loaded up in the plane and is getting ready to leave! Has not told me a thing about him actually leaving, contacting the pilot, nothing! I’m in complete shock that this is happening. If I wouldn’t have come off the hill, I wouldn’t have even known he left until I got back to camp that night.

Anyways, I get down there and ask him to leave his food and the raft. He already left the raft (took the paddles though) and handed me the extra food. Says sorry man and then flys off. Im in disbelief. I’ve known this dude for almost two decades and he pulls this. Leaves me alone with my dad, who’s 65, in the wilds of Alaska to hunt moose with zero explanation. Still haven’t got one from him and I honestly don’t care to ask.

So after that nonsense I saw an absolute monster of a moose the next day. Which is kinda like what happened in Wyoming in terms of finding animals. Patients pays off. Fast forward to the 5th and I shoot one opening morning. This is when I needed him. I packed that moose out, for the most part, by myself. My dad helped as much as he could but he’s 65 and moose quarters aren’t light and we had to move that bull 1.25 miles to the river then up the river another 3.5 to camp. Took me four days total, if my buddy wouldn’t have quit on me it would have taken two. But great news! I didn’t lose any meat, had a good time with my dad, and love the grind of moose hunting.

So, who else has a story like this? Everyone I told this to at the lodge was shocked and had never heard anything like this happening. Yeah, people quit but they normally give you a heads up! So let’s hear it guys, what’s your craziest hunting partner quitting on you story?


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Man, that is a really bad combo of shame and cowardice that former buddy displayed. Haven't seen anyone flame-out on a team hunt like that, but plenty of guys quit early when solo hunting. Some guys have a hard time being alone with their thoughts for extended periods, and start coming up with excuses and justifications for quitting. It's sad. Because that's a self-inflicted spiritual/ego wound he'll never recover from, short of doing an awful lot of inner work.
 
bwhahaha! man that is great.

Over my years of guiding/outfitting I saw this dozens of times. Decade long friendships go up in flames. Wild.

One time I packed out a guy who had killed a bull... when I got to the qtrs and head (they were about a mile from camp) he was there with all his gear and bedroll. I thought.... hmm odd. then he explained he wanted to head down the mountain with the bull. Something about his back hurting and wanting to take care of meat. No prob.

His buddies called the next day frantic on a sat phone to tell me that their buddy was lost in the wilderness and probably dead.
Turns out he was already half way home and never told them 🤣
Ha! How people can do that baffles me. If you’re in San Juan next week I’ll buy us a round and we can laugh about all the quitters 😂

Never had a problem like that in my 70 years of hunting big game.

I blame my brother’s x wife for my troubles 😂. He’s my hunting partner and for good reason. He will be back in action starting next month!


What a chicken shit. I hope you sent him pictures of that bull.

Oh I did. Didn’t get much of a response either. Just asked when I was getting back because my truck is parked at his house 😂




The fact that you were successful makes this story so much better. I'm sure you two probably aren't planning any more hunting trips together. Did he have much experience before this trip hunting anything? I feel like seasoned hunters are the eternal optimist. Always checking the next ridge or waiting until there is absolutely no light left to do anything before calling it. We all know that things can change quickly.

He grew up hunting whitetail in Minnesota. We went mule deer hunting out of my house in Arizona when I lived there and I think that’s the extent of his experience.


Man, that is a really bad combo of shame and cowardice that former buddy displayed. Haven't seen anyone flame-out on a team hunt like that, but plenty of guys quit early when solo hunting. Some guys have a hard time being alone with their thoughts for extended periods, and start coming up with excuses and justifications for quitting. It's sad. Because that's a self-inflicted spiritual/ego wound he'll never recover from, short of doing an awful lot of inner work.

I agree. His lack of response of me tagging out and concern of him getting his raft back showed that. It’s a shame. We were in the military together too. Haven’t seen him in about ten years and he has changed a lot.
 
“One cannot run from a challenge without losing. To flee is signing a death warrant to dignity and character, and, having run, there is no return; one is a weakling forever.

Meeting a challenge, though one may be defeated, gives strength, character, and a certain assurance regardless of the outcome, one will survive or go down fighting.” Sigurd F. Olson.
 
What a freaking wimp. Rather than having people quit like that, we’ve had some hunting partners that just weren’t a good mesh and we never hunted with them again.

For a person to act like that guy did is extremely disrespectful. Anyone with integrity wouldn’t do that. And even if someone was struggling, you and your dad were there to help and comfort. A conversation can go along ways in making a person feel better and I’m sure you would have been more than happy to do that.


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Gotta find a hunting partner that has a badass wife who won’t be begging him to come home early the whole time!! Thats one of the biggest reasons I’ve seen/heard people quit!


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Would love to hear his side of the story.

That's not a dig at you, I like hearing how people justify their actions.
 
Hopefully he paid the bill for the extra flight. Calling the plane to come get you without telling your partner is insane to me. Really, leaving a fly out hunt like that at all is crazy, even if he would have told you.
 
I've had one guy quit.

It was a friend of friends. I liked the guy. He was really excited, he wanted to come over and shoot all the time. Excited about hunting, in great shape. I kinda figured I would mentor this younger guy, as he had never hunted anything but whitetails. We drove together several hours and packed in several miles up to about 10k elevation. Everything seemed to be going great! We planned on hunting Saturday, Sunday morning, then hiking out.

Opening day comes and we don't see anything right away. So we go still hunt a wooded slope and find nothing. Still no mule deer. Late morning he says he's hiking back to camp for whatever. Maybe a nap. I set down on a good glassing point and prepare to spend most of the day there.

Maybe a couple hours later I wonder where he is so I pick up and hike a bit to where I can see camp. His tent is gone!! Only my stuff is left. Now this guy is GREEN. He's never mountain hunted or backpacked camped overnight. I hurry back down to camp. I think he's got to have left a note. Nothing. I assume the worst and think that he must be hurt or really sick to just bail like that, I have to find him. I felt responsible for him. I pack up my tent and all my stuff as fast as I can and I can see by his tracks he's on the trail back out. So I follow him.

Maybe 2 miles later I catch up to him as he see's me coming and slows down to wait for me. He isn't hurt, he said he just didn't sleep well last night and doesn't feel too good and needs to go home. This guy is like 25, and in great shape. He somehow got service, called an employee to drive 3 hours to the trailhead to come pick him up. He claims he didn't want to ruin my hunt, so he just left. I couldn't believe it! you could have walked over and told me you were leaving, or left a note. Now I'm exhausted from packing up all my stuff and running after him! Nearly all the way back to the truck! Of course the hunt is ruined. I tried my best to play it cool and act like I understood. I hiked back to the truck with him and waited for his ride.

Despite multiple attempts from him, we never hunted together again.
 
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