You sound like a shooter with buyers remorse...
As for evidence Ive burnt the barrel outta my favorite 243, coyote hunting buddy burnt the barrel outa his 22-250 with about 1k rounds of 4k fps handloads.
As for theory, every time you use a balistics app, or ballistics calculator in your scope your trusting a theory, someone else's theory at that.
As for 7bc, never said it wouldn't kill, it's probably a great round for what it's was designed for. It's just that it's not designed for me.
It's designed for people who are into fad cartridges, trust gun writers more than experience, and have extra money.
The avg buyer of a 7bc will not shoot 250 rounds thru the rifle while they own it, barrel wear isn't an issue. It's just something I look at with how I shoot.