This is the wrong place to seek such advice. There are no uniform answers. Every single case is different. Seek professional counsel.
Agreed. there are already some totally wrong comments here above.
We did a living trust for the many advantages. We can stipulate exactly how our estate gets divvied up and who is the executor controlling it- my daughter.
There are a few things worth considering on a trust;
A trust avoids probate in every state I know of. Probate takes a big chunk of the estate in taxes and legal fees.
These are a separate entity under the law- usually a good thing.
The Executor is the key decision, they have all of the power and can charge the estate big bucks for their time. I wouldn't use an attorney for the executor. I think My Bro in law made a big mistake; His kids don't get along when it comes to money and their current business; he made them Co- Executors. He is creating a bloody fight over his estate instead of harmony.
RE gets inherited at the accelerated basis when you pass- no tax on appreciation to the beneficiary. It's a good idea for the kids to get the RE appraised ASAP if they intend to keep it to lock in that new basis.
When there is big money involved, it can create problems, lawsuits, etc. Best to address potential problems ahead of time in the trust. An example would be any protest or lawsuit against the executor cuts the antagonist off at the knees.
In my case I gave my daughter a separate guide on the charities I want money going to. If it's in the trust, the entity is notified and they will have their lawyers monitoring the trust which will cause additional costs/red tape for the executor.