Like others have said, hang out with other hunters and wear a hunting related baseball cap. I can be at a bbq and know nothing else about someone, but a t-shirt or hat is an invitation to talk about hunting. The last bbq of the season I met an entire family of avid hunters from the California wine country. Even if you don’t want to hunt bow seasons, you will meet a bunch of hunters going to an indoor range. Same for a fly tying class, fishing club, etc. Go to the sportsmen’s expo in Sacramento and any hunting or shooting related events you come across. FB is full of knuckle heads, but you need all the help you can get so join groups. I just googled it and it looks like MeetUp has a Bay Area hunting group that gets together in person.
For anything in life it helps to have a one or two sentence tag line that invites conversation. If you wanted to get into Aardvark hunting, anytime you cross paths with experienced Aardvark hunters it might be, “ I’m just getting started trying to figure out Aardvark hunting - it’s hard to know where to begin or what to focus on.” Other Aardvark hunters will chime in with all sorts of advice or words of encouragement. Asking for guidance and direction can be as easy as saying, “Do you have any advice?” or “How did you learn how to hunt Aardvarks?” and let people talk and don’t interrupt and make it about yourself. You might not even like the person, but they know others that you will.
Good luck and you’ll figure it out.