Internet reloading university suggests for the best mandrelling results, the mandrel has to do some work expanding. IE if you neck down 0.001" or less smaller than the mandrel diameter, it might not be doing much with spring back in play.
For the mandrels i've bought, i spec'd 0.0025" under bullet diameter. No data to support that as being the right answer it just struck me as a decent amount of tension without being overkill.
I stopped using mandrels for years because i didn't want to deal with multiple passes through a single stage press. Didn't feel it was worth it. Only started bringing them out again recently now that i'm starting to load more on a progressive.