OP - sorry you are going through this. It's a good reminder to be careful, even (or especially) with family.
There are a few nuggets above that are probably right, and some other suggestions that I think are well-intentioned, but off base enough that you may go on a detour and waste time. The only advice that is solid is to hire an attorney and to disregard everyone else's recommendations and input - including my feedback below (none of which is legal advice or can be relied on by anyone - especially anyone who sees my other posts on RS).
And if you find an attorney, I expect you will pay more than you think (and definitely more than you want). Maybe look for someone other than a real estate closing attorney (as mentioned above), and see if you can find one who knows what suretyship and subrogation mean.
I was thinking It gets the deadbeat off the deed so he can deal with the bank but it won’t get the deadbeat off the bank note.
The last part is pretty much right. There are probably three documents involved. (There could be a 4th - if the OP signed a guarantee.) The promissory note (referenced above) which is the obligation of the borrower(s) to the bank. The "deed" is usually the reference to a warranty (or other type of) deed that the owners of the property got when they purchased the house and which evidences their ownership of the property. The "mortgage" is the security interest/deed that reflects the bank's security interest in the property. Being on the title/deed can be unrelated to being a borrower, and even if the owner is a borrower, getting off of the deed (such as by quit claiming one's OWN interest) should not impact the bank's promissory note or security interest rights.
Are the relatives willing to remove themselves from the note, vacate, and allow you to take it over and bring it back to good standing to then put on the market and maybe you can recoup some of your investment and headache?
Hopefully the property has at least appreciated in value.
One can't remove oneself from a note. It's a contract and an amendment needs the agreement of the others, and the bank would be unlikely to release anyone who is a party to the note.
The only instance I saw a quick deed issued was when a divorce occured to make it a clean separation. Wasn't sure how that could be forced in just a family disgruntled situation. May have to dig deeper/lawyer
I think a QCD in a divorce is not going to be a good analogy. Divorces can end by agreement, and part of that could have been one spouse
agreed to release the title in the property via a QCD. Even if the bad family member would provide a QCD, it would not help with respect to the bank. And in divorce situations, the bank usually won't give in and will insist on refinancing or repayment under the original note.
Correct, the court can say you are forced to refinance, but they have zero influence over the bank. Bank is not required to make a bad loan. Get an attorney.
^^^^This
For my state, the last time I checked (decades ago), the morgage holder has a legal obligation to notify the co-signed of any late payments in a timely manner. If they failed to do that, and if the law is the same then from a legal perspective, they can not require the co-signer to make up missed payments, no put negative info on the co-signers credit report. However, you will likely need legal support from an attorney. I experienced this on a vehicle loan decades ago, and was fortunate to simply let the bank know that I knew the law and would take legal action against them if they reported it on my credit. However, I was never notified until the vehicle had been repossessed. There were no different requirements for morgages at the time of my experience.
I'm not sure this is right, but it doesn't strike me as what I would have expected. This could vary by state law, or perhaps (but not likely) by contract.
You couldn't strike up a separate legal partnership agreement based upon the purchase with terms on how things will be addressed in different circumstances? I know guys who buy recreational land in a partnership set up some kind of LLC or legal agreement to address these types of problems.
Definitely, but I don't think a side deal here - at this point - would help the OP unless he could get the bank to participate. But I wouldn't hold my breath on that. This would have been a better alternative to consider up front - but it still might not have avoided the OP being on the hook, as the bank would have been unlikely to loan to the entity without personal liability.
I don't know of any states that allow wage garnishment for a mortgage judgment.
I do know what a deficiency judgment is, that's why I say push for as quick a foreclosure as possible. Get the deadbeats out while housing prices are still high, and prevent another 18 months of missed payments. No way I'd make payments to extend the misery.
If someone gets a judgment against you, they can typically choose from a host of ways in which to enforce that judgment, including selling the house, placing liens on and selling your other property, and garnishing wages. I suppose a state could have a law that exempts wage garnishment.