Part of the problem is how people think. This is not meant to be condescending. I have been very broke and destitute, and I have made what most would consider decent money (just shy of $300k). When I was broke, it was a choice/mindset thing. I was a teacher, and I loved it. I could hunt with a tag, a rifle, and a few cartridges. The rifle was purchased for $400 from a flea market with a weaver grand slam on top. My WHOLE reloading set-up was $150. We ate venison a lot. We bought nothing for meat except chicken and a tiny bit of pork.
My job was salary, so I couldn't just go work more. I didn't think about opportunity cost of not working to hunt. I didn't entertain the idea of getting a second job. The way I hunted saved money on meat, and I was going to hunt anyway.
Eventually, I had to start a business to make it financially. A teacher's salary didn't cut it in a single income family of 4. No I have a bunch of expensive gear, hunt less, and realize that every day I could be selling or working to make more money. There is no way the meat pencils out now. It is a hobby, and a damned expensive one at that. On top of the cost of really good gear, every day I hunt and every second I spend ready and typing on rokslide has an opportunity cost, a fairly large one. The difference is that I have the financial ability to choose, before, I did not.
There is nothing wrong with either situation if you enjoy your life. As a teacher, I was turning out some great students, and I had more time to spend with my wife and kids. During my first few years in business, there were brief time periods where I had to stop and think to remember I had kids. My point is, life is all about choices and perspectives. Sometimes it's hard to understand and consider those of different people.