That whole happy thing makes my ass twitch - if it works for you, great, just makes me twitch. That's the art history or film major crying he can't find a job during a tough time or losing his job during a pandemic. Suffer a little, figure out a happy work/life balance but prepare for the unsettled future with an employable and higher paying career. Maybe you'll actually enjoy it...
Pension is tough to find these days but some places still have it.
The health care thing is primo. Wait til you have an Obama-Plan w $1,000/month premium and $13,000 deductible and your wife gets sick or you break a leg. Just to add my wife to my work-sponsored health plan would be $500/month and the deductible goes up to $7K. That's $13K a year to have her on there.
If you can do strong math and want to make money, have better job retention during downturns:
Engineer
Accountant
If you can schmooze folks well:
Sales
Computers - we all need someone to fix the danged things
Computer aided drafting - lotsa companies have drafts-people
Business management - land you a job at the local chain grocery store and provide pretty well w pay bennies and vacation time over time.
Bankers do good - you'll need a business/accounting type degree and an MBA later on. Work as a teller while you get the degree.
Sell weed - you live in CO.
At 41 the trades are out, too old to do the grunt work for 10-20 years working your way up.
Maybe a certified auto mechanic - my nephew went to some big automotive school for about 18 months and has been working his way up ever since. He's done very well but has more drive than most and has the gift of gab - folks just like him - add a bit of talent, and presto for climbing the ladder.