I chose quality of life but co-parenting is definitely a factor as well.
I live in an extremely unique community in Southern California. I know what you are thinking but not at all like that.
My back yard is 100K acres of national forest, I own my electricity through a co-op, own my water, my well is only 60' deep with water that has 0 added chemicals and my mortgage is probably comparable to any other state people want to move to for a cheaper way of life.
We have access to free range beef 2-3 times a year for helping with branding and the occasional drive or help with a lost cow. High speed internet FINALLY which has allowed me to work from home instead of driving 100 miles one way 3 days a week.
Ultimately my oldest son who lives an hour and a half away is what keeps me here. Being able to show him a different way of life than the city that he lives in is what means the most to me. It's as close to country living as you can get in Southern California and it's a much different pace of life. My youngest gets to walk down the street to his Grandpa's house which is the same place I was born and raised in and my wife and I got married at 8 years ago.
I get to share childhood memories with my kids on the same trails, rocks and lakes doing the same things but way safer. A pretty happy and blessed man.
I live in an extremely unique community in Southern California. I know what you are thinking but not at all like that.
My back yard is 100K acres of national forest, I own my electricity through a co-op, own my water, my well is only 60' deep with water that has 0 added chemicals and my mortgage is probably comparable to any other state people want to move to for a cheaper way of life.
We have access to free range beef 2-3 times a year for helping with branding and the occasional drive or help with a lost cow. High speed internet FINALLY which has allowed me to work from home instead of driving 100 miles one way 3 days a week.
Ultimately my oldest son who lives an hour and a half away is what keeps me here. Being able to show him a different way of life than the city that he lives in is what means the most to me. It's as close to country living as you can get in Southern California and it's a much different pace of life. My youngest gets to walk down the street to his Grandpa's house which is the same place I was born and raised in and my wife and I got married at 8 years ago.
I get to share childhood memories with my kids on the same trails, rocks and lakes doing the same things but way safer. A pretty happy and blessed man.