The knot has a lot to do with having an abundance of p-cord

but it ended up allowing me to "pulley" the two stays together and use some leverage to secure them rather than tying them in individually.
The top stay has the cord threaded through the arrow shaft and wrapped around the other side of the frame and through the bottom loop of the adjustable load lifter angles. With the shaft cut just a bit wider than the frame at that point, the cord is only pulling against the ends of the arrow shafts and is very snug in place.
For the lower stay, I pushed the loop of cord through the flat-sewn webbing on the frame sheet and put that arrow stay thru the loop. When the cord is pulled tight, the arrow pulls against that webbing. Both cross stays are very solid in place with the extra cord pulling them tight into their attachments.
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