Grad school financial planning with my daughter

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The basic background story…our daughter recently received a bachelors degree in animal science with a focus on equine health and still working on a double minor from UVM. She is an excellent student and a fantastic human being who seems dedicated to someday becoming a veterinarian. Fortunately with scholarships and hard work she has zero debt from her undergrad education. Currently she is working on applications to veterinary schools across the country with high hopes of getting accepted and attending a graduate program beginning in the fall of 2027. If she gets accepted, she (we) will have no choice but to finance the majority of the remainder of her education. We are obviously super proud of her and excited for her future but nervous for the financial burden that she will face during this time. We have made it clear that we will support her as much as possible but she will end up with a significant amount of debt after grad school. She is expecting to have very little time to have a job that would make any significant difference in her finances so her plan is to finance tuition, housing and living expenses. I’m estimating that will be somewhere in the neighborhood of 100k per year!? That seems insane to me but don’t know how else she would do it. My wife and I are both hard working but regular blue collar people (without any rich relatives). We will do our best to help but that’s a very scary amount of debt! I worry about the long term effects it might have on our daughter and potentially us.

Any advice, experiences or suggestions on how to help with this process this would be greatly appreciated.
 
Besides your faith and family, investing in your career has the highest ROI. Sounds like you all are doing a great job.

If you want, I can reach out to my network and get you some referrals. There are financial planners that work just on this niche, likley WELL worth the time/$$$.
 
The median vet salary is something like $125k.

Let your daughter live with you after grad school (if she’s so interested) and encourage her to work 1.5 jobs during her first year after graduating to pay off debt. She will be mid/late 20’s with no debt and a high paying career that can’t be automated/AI’d.

My wife and I worked 5 combined jobs after grad school to pay off debt as fresh newlyweds. It sucked for 18 months but we were debt free and then could focus on individual careers and take chances. We’re high earners now.
 
My wife is a veterinarian and we got married when she was in undergrad so I have first hand knowledge of how this process works. I worked full time while she went to school so we were able to take loans out for her tuition only and I supported us for our living expenses. We paid her loans off quickly after she graduated with her DVM degree.

I will say that if your daughter has excellent grades and interviews well, then hopefully she can get accepted to multiple vet schools. Choose the one that is the least expensive. No one cares where she went to school, they will just care that she knows what the flip she is doing and can take care of their animals.

Since there isn’t a Vet school in Vermont she will be applying as a non-resident. Some vet schools allow a non-resident to become a resident of that state after their first year therefore allowing them to pay in-state tuition rates the final 3 years (an online search is your friend).

Apply for as many scholarships as she can. Make this her part time job. If she can get 30 scholarships averaging $1k each then there’s $30k…

Also beware that the “island” schools will rape you with excess tuition and then she will still have to go to a school in the US to do her 4th year rotations.

Feel free to PM me if you have an additional questions.
 
Not to be Debbie downer.. Find the cheapest Vet program possible….no one cares where their vet went to school.

ROI is tough for veterinarians, they have one of highest suicide rates as a professional. I respect them greatly and appreciate them immensely.
 
Watch the DVM programs as some don’t allow you to gain residency once started. If that’s the case, it may be worth getting residency in the state before starting if possible.

Don’t be afraid to call and ask. Many schools provide tuition waivers for nonresident students. Many are only good for a year or whatever it takes to gain residency.

Utah State University has a DVM program that for residents, it’s less than half what you are expecting and my experience is that they generally over estimate some of the costs associated.
 
I never even thought about her becoming a resident of that state before attending school there. She should know by January or February if she is accepted into any programs which would give her a little lead time to relocate. Good stuff so far!
 
Find scholarships and grants for sure. I got 2 masters degrees for free, 100% paid for and at the end of the second, they even let me keep the balance of what was left on my account from the scholarship. So I got a bunch of education and at the end, a check for 11k showed up in the mail.
 
I never even thought about her becoming a resident of that state before attending school there. She should know by January or February if she is accepted into any programs which would give her a little lead time to relocate. Good stuff so far!
Might be different depending on the field, but my wife's graduate school cost was the same whether you were a resident or not.
 
Let’s hope this will reduce tuition costs as they have really gotten out of hand the last 2 decades
There are relatively new restrictions on how much she may be able to borrow on federal student loans that could impact her journey.

 
There are relatively new restrictions on how much she may be able to borrow on federal student loans that could impact her journey.

I think it’s a good thing to limit how much she is able to borrow but you’re probably right in that it won’t be enough to cover it all. It just makes me sick to think about her being that much in debt at 26 years old. It’s such a big life changing commitment at such a young age. It’s tough to explain to her what kind of a burden that can be without sounding like I'm trying to talk her out of going to grad school. We’re at a place in our lives right where we have very very little debt ourselves and how difficult it can be to get out of debt if you’re not careful no matter how much money you make.
 
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