First time Hunter and The Big Buck Blues

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Growing up in a hunting family, it was clear just how important hunting was to all of us. Dad always had us on the mountain, and Mom always did what she could to help us get there. I remember, over the years, wondering what life would be like when I grew up, got married, and maybe had kids. Would I have kids? Would they even like to hunt?

Fast forward to 2013—my wife (then girlfriend) and I were having a baby. I remember the reveal like it was yesterday: cutting into a chocolate cake and discovering the color pink. Like most guys, it wasn’t exactly what I had envisioned, but I was excited. I told myself, “That girl will be on the mountain.”

Today, that same little girl is a not-so-little 12-year-old. Ever since Kapree passed her Hunter’s Ed course, I’ve been applying her for a handful of western states—sometimes with her knowledge, sometimes without. As luck would have it, she struck gold in Idaho, picking up her first controlled tag for rifle season this summer.

I’ve spent a decent amount of time in that unit hunting archery in the past and have applied for the rifle hunt myself off and on. With tight schedules—mine and a 12-year-old girl who dances, tumbles, cheers, and does all the fun stuff—we were only able to make it down to scout one time. (Keep in mind, I also had a Nevada muzzy tag we were trying to maximize.) On that trip, we saw a handful of deer but nothing like the bucks that used to haunt me on that mountain.

We also spent time at the range, shooting a 6.5 Creedmoor. It didn’t take long to see that the gun was a shooter—and so was she. October 5th couldn’t come fast enough. If there was a big buck on the hill, he might be in trouble.

We arrived two days before the opener. We were joined by my wife, son, and mother. It made for an interesting night in our little camper with extreme rain, lightning strikes, and what sounded like a twister outside. Let’s just say my wife was scared to death—and I won’t be getting an award for “Husband of the Year.”

We spent the two days road hunting, scouting, and taking any little jab we could get to see the mountain through the low visibility. We found a handful of deer but nothing to get us fired up.

Opening morning came, and the skies were clear. We geared up and hit one of my old glassing knobs before daylight. They spent most of the time glassing from the truck, while I ran around like a headless chicken, glassing 360°—every basin, every draw—anywhere that might hold a deer. It was a slow morning, with only does and very small bucks. The hunters were out in full force, mostly on the roads.

Once things slowed down around 10:30 a.m., I decided to take the crew to some new scenery. They seemed slightly burned out from excessive truck snacks and glassing the same deer-less hill.

We headed to an old juniper burn where I’ve seen a lot of deer in the past. There are a lot of shallow drainages that parallel and run off the main mountain, and I’ve always found bucks bedded in the brushy bottoms. We were driving down a heavily traveled road when I stopped to glass a drainage that most people would fly past at high speed. It didn’t have the kind of look that would make a hunter stop to glass. But through my 10s, at a few hundred yards, I made out a dark U-shaped object sticking up from the brush in the bottom.

I killed the truck to stop the vibrations and had my wife hand me my Swaro 15s. To my surprise—a nice set of antlers, sticking up out of the brush. He was bedded, facing away, looking up the drainage, and all I could see were the tops of his ears and his chocolatey, large rack.


My wife asked if it was big.


I replied, “It’s a buck,” doing my best to remain calm and avoid getting anyone too wound up. I backed the truck up a hundred yards or so to get out of sight. I grabbed my pack and my daughter, and we made a short, quiet stalk to the left side of the drainage. The wind was perfect, and it began to rain a little.

We picked up the buck, still bedded at 150 yards, but from this position, we could only see his head and antlers. I sat there and asked myself, How can we kill this deer now? I didn’t like where he was—300 yards from the road, the weather rainy and cold, and a truck full of people waiting it out.

I decided we’d back out and drive across to the other side of the drainage to try the same play. I was pretty sure we’d be able to see his body from that angle. The only setback was that the hills leading to the drainage were pretty bald, with only two clumps of brush to break up our image.

We belly-crawled to one of the bushes to avoid skylining ourselves. We peeked over and found—not only the big buck—but another buck we didn’t originally know was there, bedded at 150 yards.

Just then, I heard the sound of a side-by-side making its way up the road. I quickly sat down and glassed in the other direction, hoping to avoid drawing attention. Once it disappeared, I carefully set up my tripod, which had a gun clamp mounted on top. I would’ve really liked her to shoot prone off my pack, but I needed another 10 feet or so, and I didn’t dare get closer.

I got the gun locked in, and my daughter slid into position. These movements and soft noises had me nervous. We carefully jacked a round in, and she could see the deer in the scope, still bedded. The scope was full of deer at that range. One problem: her torso was a little too short to execute the shot properly—so I carefully slid my pack under her butt to raise her just a hair.

Right at that moment, the buck shook his head and rose to his feet. I said, “He’s up. Kill him.”

He stood for about six seconds, then trotted 10 yards and stopped broadside. I backed the zoom off the scope so she could regain her field of view. Again, I said, “Shoot him.”


But the gun didn’t go off.

The bucks trotted up the hill and out of our lives.

There I was again—sitting on the hillside with my tail between my legs. Except this time, my little girl was right there beside me. I felt sick—like we’d just dropped the pass for the game-winner. She looked disappointed and flustered.

I knew I didn’t want this to be a bad experience, so I took a deep breath and said, “This is why we prepare. This is why we practice. Not just in hunting—but in anything we do in life. Because once we get our chance, we have to make it count. And when it comes to big bucks, they don’t give you a lot time—you gotta be ready.”

I hugged her, and we walked back to the truck empty-handed. She had her first big buck letdown, and as for me… I guess I’m just used to the pain. The play on this deer wasn’t terrible, but I’ve laid in bed just wishing I could’ve gotten her in a better position to be successful.

Oh well, we’ll head back out to the mountain again soon. Hopefully next time, they won’t be so lucky.
 
When I was 12 I blew it on a 150 inch 6 by 6 whitetail. A few days later I shot a small 3 point mule deer. I was still happy. It happens.
 
We've had plenty of close calls and almost along the way. My boys are now 12 and 15, my daughter 17. They've been hunting since at least 8.
From 4 missed oryx on my daughter's hunt to a missed mature bull by my older son last season with the muzzy. I can't tell you how many times I've seen a critter that I could have shot, but they can't find it in the scope or they take too long to get settled, and the animal moves.
It sure makes for some good memories, though.
One of the funniest was my older son getting buck fever for the first time. We were set up on a small pipeline on a ground blind. I saw the buck come out, but just told him there was a deer and didn't mention horns. When he got in the scope, he gasped, "It's a buck!" he whispered. His breaths went immediately to huge deep breaths, and he started shaking. He couldn't get steady, and the buck just walked off. Then he got upset. But his reaction was memorable.
 
It sounds like you are putting a lot of pressure on yourself to get her a nice buck. That is a pretty tall order for a new hunter.

My oldest has her first deer tag at 13 this year. She has quite a few after school activities that she enjoys. We talked about it and I told her that I would take her out as much as she wanted to go, but not to feel like she needed to miss the things she really enjoys just because I love hunting. I told her we can go after whatever buck makes her happy, and that the main thing was to get a good steady shot, and if she didn’t feel comfortable, it was ok not to take the shot.

Between all the life, we’ve been out a few times, made a few stalks on mostly smaller bucks that didn’t come together, had a close encounter on a pretty good buck, but mostly just had a nice time spending time outside. She says she really likes hunting, and to be honest it has been one of the more enjoyable hunts I have been on.
 
Redemption. Part 2

After we blew our chances on the big buck on Sunday, we headed home to get back to work and school. The following monday evening, I got a call from Kapree’s tumbling coach saying she had a little accident and I needed to pick her up. When I arrived, I learned she had more than likely broken the middle finger on her right hand—which also happened to be her shooting hand. The X-rays confirmed it was a break in the growth plate and that she needed surgery. Now we were really bummed—her finger was broken, she couldn’t tumble, she couldn’t try out for volleyball, and she probably couldn’t hunt. As the nurse wrapped her hand in a soft cast, we mentioned that she had a hunt going on, and we asked if she could leave her trigger finger out if possible. She did.

Surgery was scheduled for the following Monday morning. We were unable to make it out that week, so we decided to cruise up Sunday for an all-day hunt. Uncle Cody (my brother) tagged along to help find a shooter. The morning was quiet with very little deer activity, but around 11:00 a.m. I decided to go glass some drainages where I thought the big buck might be bedded. After an hour of glassing, I bumped three bucks out of a brushy bottom. None were the big buck, but they were some nice younger deer. They made their way up the drainage and into a piney canyon.

I had a pretty good idea of what those deer would do later that evening. When the time came, Pree and I hiked up a steep, bare ridge to get a look into the canyon. Cody stayed back to glass for deer and keep eyes on the situation. Once we reached the top, we immediately spotted the bucks on their feet. We crawled into position and got set up. Prior to heading up the hill, I decided to give her the keys so she could drive—in other words, she was in charge of the adventure, and I was just along for the ride.IMG_9709.jpeg

I said, “Pree, tell me what you think of those bucks.” After looking them over, she said she was interested in one. We still had more time to hunt—until the 31st, to be exact—and since she had surgery and a cast scheduled for the next day, would she even be able to shoot left-handed? Let’s just say we were out there weighing our options. Lying there prone on a bald, windblown ridge, freezing our asses off, she decided this deer was coming home with her. I ranged the buck at 450 yards and dialed the scope. The deer turned sideways, and right then she let one loose. She made the perfect shot—the buck went about ten yards and piled up.

I will never forget the joy in her voice and the look on her face as the excitement unraveled. After a couple of phone calls to Mom and Grandpa to share the good news, we made our way over to the buck. We admired her deer and set up for some field pics. She got lessons on notching a tag and quartering a deer. After an hour-long hike out with our headlamps on, we made it back to the truck. On the way home, we talked about how impressive that shot really was—and how her first buck was bigger than Dad’s first. I think I may have her hooked. I can’t wait until next year to hit the hills with my girl.

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Well done, no matter the size of the deer this will be a hunt that you both look back on and remember.
That said, thats a great first deer, congratulations and wishing your daughter a speedy recovery.
 
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