I always tell them what they want to hear... "go get a chrome plated desert eagle .50 and engrave "Tacticool" on the side. Also, you'll need 5.11 shoes, cargo pants (knee pads optional), shirt, and hat." In all seriousness, Glocks aren't sexy. Unless you consider function, performance, and reliability sexy... then they are sexy as hell!!! 9mm is a great caliber for both genders and ammo is cheap and plentiful.