That is actually interesting.I can totally tell when some posters are having a bad day, drunk, high, and even a little insecure or depressed. It’s human nature to not think anyone can tell. Lol
With clients, I used to keep a monthly calendar for notes on their mood. Simply a + - or / for a positive, negative or neutral. Men and women are affected by cycles of various types - monthly or weekly work deadlines, bills, spouses, children, sleep disorders, etc. A “d” ment they were probably drinking, and “h” ment they sounded or looked high. After 6 months I could guess what day someone gets paid on, when the mortgage was due and when someone was having a period and if they are happy before/after and how long it lasted. If they were a day drinker I could tell when they started - people are creatures of habit.
One guy I couldn’t figure out - his ups and downs didn’t seem to match a pattern - so I made it a point to chat with him a little extra to figure it out. Turned out he has undiagnosed sleep apnea and some nights doesn’t get good sleep. I told him it made a world of difference to a friend - my curiosity may help him sleep better now. Lol
Yep, this is reality!I can’t afford booze. You guys have got me buying all kinds of other useless crap.
I agree, actually more dangerous then words being told to someone in person in my opinion aswell.Doing so is actually an exercise of poor judgment. Internet posts (on any and all forums) are like bullets - once the leave the gun, they're gone. And, they live on FOREVER.
I was going to ask how you accounted for sleep! LolI can totally tell when some posters are having a bad day, drunk, high, and even a little insecure or depressed. It’s human nature to not think anyone can tell. Lol
With clients, I used to keep a monthly calendar for notes on their mood. Simply a + - or / for a positive, negative or neutral. Men and women are affected by cycles of various types - monthly or weekly work deadlines, bills, spouses, children, sleep disorders, etc. A “d” ment they were probably drinking, and “h” ment they sounded or looked high. After 6 months I could guess what day someone gets paid on, when the mortgage was due and when someone was having a period and if they are happy before/after and how long it lasted. If they were a day drinker I could tell when they started - people are creatures of habit.
One guy I couldn’t figure out - his ups and downs didn’t seem to match a pattern - so I made it a point to chat with him a little extra to figure it out. Turned out he has undiagnosed sleep apnea and some nights doesn’t get good sleep. I told him it made a world of difference to a friend - my curiosity may help him sleep better now. Lol