Tipi fabric; I would use the Silpoly over the Silnylon. The Silnylon has more stretch which equates to sagging.
Then depending on how light you want it either the .93 Silpoly .93PU 4000, 1.1oz, 1.1PU 4000 all #1 quality from Ripstop by the roll. IMO, Considering the labor involved [a lot!] I would use the highest quality fabric as you only want to do this once.
I would reinforce top cone with 210 dyneema or 500 cordura. The tieouts I would use 1.7oz dyneema ripstop reinforcements.
That Sketchup program is the bomb for a project like this. I did my big tent on the free trial....I wish I would have designed a couple others while I was at it. Sketchup will tell you all of the dimensions for your pieces- big advantage.
I was just looking at some of the .9 Silpoly on RSBTR the last few days. Do you think the thinner material would hold up well enough for a full tipi? I guess for some reason I associate thicker with stronger, but I know there's a point of diminishing returns and realistic "needs" for strength.
Jeremy