I shoot a compound, and I shoot rifles too - sometimes in the same season. And I've been known to have both in the stand at the same time. Others are obviously better than me.
This post is almost exactly what I would have written when I thought of the same "next gear" item/undertaking - including brands and similar mistakes of overspending early in prior ventures. I've also shot a friend's Barnett and his Ravin. I liked them both, but agree they are heavier than I would prefer, and not as easy to carry around. I really appreciate the ability to de-cock the Ravin, but I'm not sure it's worth the expense (yet!). But the Ravin also had the the RF Garmin scope (the horror!) - which was cool, but it seemed pretty inconsistent between practice and when in the field.
The finger loss risk is a real new thing. I found myself in the blind recently wondering "is there a way to encover those strings so I don't have to think so frequently about losing my thumb?" I figure (hope!) it will become second nature, like the end of a firearm, trigger, etc.
How has the experience been with your first x-bow?