Boys first vehicle…..

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My son is 15 so I am looking for a truck for him. I found a great deal on a 4 year old F150 xl with stx package with 81k miles. My wife thinks it’s too nice. She thinks he should have a less than $10k beater. That’s what she had as a first vehicle. And it was always broken down and her dad was having to work on it. I am not mechanically inclined so I or my son would be paying someone, and then we would be back to driving him to all his stuff. I would rather spend a little more and get something reliable that can get him though college and then it’s on him to replace it when he wants to. Lots of kids at his school are given brand fancy new trucks and cars so to me an 4 yo XL is not spoiling him. I’m curious what your thoughts are. If it matters I will be paying cash.
 
You answered your own question stating you are not mechanically inclined. Nothing wrong with that, but you’ll be sick of paying the shop for repairs every other month AND still having to drive him when the truck is in the shop. Buy one that runs and have him drive you to go hunting or fishing.
 
I would never do that for my kid, but that’s just me.

I remember perusing the local classifieds when I was around 14 and my dad walked in and asked what I was doing. I told him I was looking at trucks, and made a comment about how I was researching what I wanted him to buy for me. He scoffed and followed it with “if you wanna drive, you better buy something yourself, because I’m not buying you anything.” 2 years later, I paid $1500 for an 18 year old ford ranger with 170k on it and a manual transmission that would pop out of 1st gear if I didn’t hold it in gear between shifts, and the clutch had a bad throw out bearing that would whine at drive speeds.

It was the most money I had ever spent at 16, and I didn’t take the decision lightly. Dad taught me what to look for and helped, but left the decision up to me. To this day, I feel it shaped my decision making and made me a better person.

Call me old school, but there is zero reason a teenager should be driving a 4 year old pickup with low miles. He’s gonna hit stuff, it’s gonna get dinged up in the high school parking lot, it’s gonna get hot rodded and abused, and it’ll most likely be worth almost zero when he’s done with it. A teen should drive a throwaway vehicle as their daily (preferably paid for by himself), and then earn the privilege to borrow mom or dad’s nice car for special occasions like prom.

But what do I know, I’m just a bitter dude whose small farm town is getting ruined by people who send their kids to school in dad’s 2023 Tremor edition F350.

In the words of Dave Ramsey, “buy a hooptee.” Or more preferable, make him buy his own hooptee.
 
I took a different approach. My eldest son is 6 and I wanted a new rig. My current is 26 years old and nearly 300k miles. I like keeping cars around.

I selected my mid size truck based on it being a good car for him in a decade. I like the new rig for me, and hoping it proves itself worthy for my kid at the 100k miles mark or so. And I’ll know its entire maintenance history and ins and outs. Can teach it to him as he grows and make him earn it.

I’ll let you know in a decade if it paid off!

(Edit: fwiw my first rig was a $2k 1989 Cherokee 4x4 with 180k. At the time it was fine but I felt entitled to better. Damn I wish I still had it, be worth $10k in CO these days)
 
Reliable doesn’t have to mean nearly brand new. Most of my friends in high school had vehicles that were at least 10-15 years old.

Like above, I’m looking at picking up a used 4Runner or Tacoma for a daily driver for me to use until my son can drive in 5 years.
 
my first car was a 2500 dollar Camry. I’ll do something similar for my kids. No 16 year old needs a truck. JMO
I’m curious where u live to say no 16 yo needs a truck? I wouldn’t consider buying anything other than a truck, in order to help me out with chores/ work, he 100% will be getting a truck. With the payload of a 1/2 ton I would actually consider getting a 3/4 ton so he can do more. We buy feed by the pallet for example.
 
I’m curious where u live to say no 16 yo needs a truck? I wouldn’t consider buying anything other than a truck, in order to help me out with chores/ work, he 100% will be getting a truck. With the payload of a 1/2 ton I would actually consider getting a 3/4 ton so he can do more. We buy feed by the pallet for example.
Then buy a cheap feed pickup for the family to use and put him in a Corolla.

$3k for the Yota
$5k for a mid 90’s single cab long box F250 to haul feed totes.

And then put the remaining $2k into his college fund. Just spent your $10k you’ve got burning a hole in your pocket.

EDIT: and bonus, those 2 vehicles will be much cheaper to insure than a 4 year old lease return, saving money every month as well. And his gas will be cheaper.

Or, again, make him buy his own.
 
I’m curious where u live to say no 16 yo needs a truck? I wouldn’t consider buying anything other than a truck, in order to help me out with chores/ work, he 100% will be getting a truck. With the payload of a 1/2 ton I would actually consider getting a 3/4 ton so he can do more. We buy feed by the pallet for example.
Grew up on a cattle ranch. There were always trucks available for chores and errands. My best friend had a truck and man we had some close calls and a whole bunch of fun. There’s a reason insurance is way higher on a truck for a kid. You can get in a lot more trouble in a truck than a 140hp Camry.
 
Kids being kids it’s likely that it’ll get fender bendered and hotrodded some. I’d be looking at something new enough to be reliable ish but old enough to be cheap. Insurance will likely be way cheaper on something older too.

And get him a Chilton manual and some harbor freight tools to go along with it. Just because you’re not mechanically inclined doesn’t mean he can’t be. Doing minor to semi major repairs on a vehicle is easier now with a step by step for nearly anything available on YouTube university than it’s ever been before. He might learn something that will come in handy when he’s 22, broke, and on his own and his truck goes down.

I’m fully in your camp on getting him a pickup too. If a young man wants to be a proper outdoorsman and adventurer he’ll find a pickup handy.
 
My son will definitely get a truck or suv. I don’t need him stranded all the time in winter and it would be nice if he could cut firewood and do odd jobs to make a little money. A car is almost useless in the mountains in winter.

That being said, a 4 year old truck is brand spanking new. I wouldn’t even buy something like that for myself. You can get a reasonably reliable 4x4 for under 10k if you shop around. Add in a set of tools for him (sockets, impact, breaker bar, torch, jack stands, stuff like that) and he should be able to fix most things with the help of YouTube. I would avoid vehicles with a bunch of tech or turbos. A basic v6 or v8 with a good track record will be easy to maintain.
 
The world and economy sure has changed since most of us got our first car back in the 1900s. A few years ago we were in this situation and went with something newer because it was surprisingly cheap to insure with the modern safety features. Also we needed a solid backup if my wife’s car broke down.

I say you have to look at your situation and think of it as a family vehicle and not a teenagers vehicle.
 
Get the kid an old reliable pickup! I’m partial to Toyotas. Maintenance and wear items and it’ll go forever. Even if you don’t wrench, with access to YouTube and some tools a high schooler with no money and unlimited free time could learn some good lessons.
 
Do we have the same buddy?
I would doubt it. He was held back a year but it was only one. For it to be the same person, he would have had to have been held back like 75 years or so you old fart.



To add something constructive. I would suggest finding an older Tacoma or first gen Tundra. Good old pickups and can be found for around 10K. I don’t see anything wrong with buying your kid a nicer vehicle if you can afford it though.
 
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