Now I know they’re not going to see me and come running to eat me but they could come poking around my tent etc and make for a long sleepless night…I feel like I am being ridiculous
Bears do eat some people. A coworker helped recover a gal pulled out of her tent in Yellowstone by a grizzly - they eat the guts first so what’s left after the first day makes for quite the grizzly photo.
Blacks eat fewer people than grizzlies. Low density areas are safer just due to the numbers. Clean camps prevent most encounters, and camp placement reduces odds even more.
It’s still common in many places to pepper bears with bird shot - if my body hurt all the time, only one eye worked, I was really hungry from having a hard time getting around, I’d probably eat someone to. The closer you are to places that pepper habituated bears the more your odds go up.
If there is a problem bear, you probably won’t be the first person to encounter it. There’s a local story of a bear getting into camps in a certain heavily traveled drainage and later that summer mysteriously someone disappeared without a trace. Had he checked for bear problems and simply backpacked somewhere else, he might have died in a car accident or old age, but he still would eventually die.
There comes a point where you decide if the risk is worth the reward and just do it. I’m a light sleeper and use a tiny am/fm radio and ear buds to drown out night noises, but the night is full of animals that sound scary. At some level you simply accept that if something bad happens hopefully you’ll get a shot off and if not that’s that. The odds are higher that “sleep walking” causes more firearm discharges at night than any animal. Even folks that don’t sleep walk do things half awake that might as well be in deep sleep.
News Max has the father and mother in law so convinced they will be killed by illegals at the grocery store that we rarely see them, or they want to walk around in socially awkward ways with pistol in hand - everyone deals with danger differently. *chuckle*