Nobody has to shoot a small caliber...its still Merica (i think).
Fragmenting bullets penetrate plenty deep enough, far and away plenty of data on this, and from outside legit sources too if you don't like the thousands of data points on this and other sites. We aren't talking about shooting elk up the bum here, or a hard angle on an elephant. We are generally talking about getting both lungs in a deer/elk/antelope/bear/caribou...whatever. There isn't an angle of shot, assuming your going into the ribcage, where pretty much anything outside of a varmit bullet isn't reaching both lungs. Maybe you aren't getting an exit, maybe your not plastering the off side shoulder or whatever, but your getting both lungs.....
It's nothing new. I mean, the partition, which is pretty widely regarded as one of the best big game bullets ever made, by design, is a cup and core design on the front half, designed for rapid expansion/fragmentation of around 40% of its weight. And its been around forever. The old Core Lokts fragmented like crazy at higher velocities at least 50%. Ballistic Tips frag around 50% or more depending.....
Shooting bullets that exit have zero implication on the lethality of the bullet. Maybe you now get the potential for more of a blood trail, but that has nothing to do with lethality. Disagree. A bullet that penetrates less creates less of a wound.
The more a bullet stays together, the smaller the wound cavity your going to get. Period. Even the Barnes guys, if you listen to their podcasts, almost uniformly, shoot their LRX bullet, specifically because it expands more then the TSX, TTSX and it can and will shed its petals, giving them at least some fragmentation to help create more of a permanent wound cavity. Disagree. A bullet that penetrates less creates less of a wound.
Doesn't mean they won't work, doesn't mean they aren't good, or that you shouldn't use them... but lets all be intellectually honest with what the bullets do or don't do.
What people "should" do, is buy a caliber of rifle that they can comfortably shoot without any signs of flinching or anticipating, that they will shoot often, that they practice with as much as possible. (Or have a smaller practice rifle, that they shoot all the time, but regardless, you need to shoot your meat gun, more then 20 shots a year if you want to be better). And try as much as possible to practice hunting scenario type shooting, under some kind of pressure, preferably against the clock, maybe with others watching them to amp up the pressure. Something that allows them to preferably see that shot and result, and allow for very quick follow up shots, cause your still gonna miss sometimes, and even if you don't miss, short of shooting a missile, animals don't always fall over dead instantly.